I need advice on body building and martial arts.?

There's a man I'll have to fight in two years. He's 21. He's a construction worker and a giant. Over 6 ft and over 200 lbs. He lifts weights 2 hours a day. He bikes, rows, and runs. His fighting skills are those of the street. He doesn't use a real style.





The reason I want to fight this man is that he has been raping my best friend, who has moved abroad, for more than six months. The sexual abuse is still going on. My friend has no evidence of any kind. She is traumatized and she obeys his every wish. The lovely courts will do nothing to help her.





I'm 19. I'm only 5 ft 9 in and I weigh only 154 lbs. I must become stronger than him in 2 years. I must build my body and I must master a martial art that stresses nothing but brute force and tactical advantage. This is where I really need your advice.I need advice on body building and martial arts.?
Dude, you're not Batman, call the Police. If what she is saying is ture there will be physical evidence left behind.I need advice on body building and martial arts.?
So you are willing to let your friend get raped for another 2 years while you have your Kill Bill fantasy? Listen to yourself because you don't make any sense. If you were that good of a friend you would be looking for a way to help her TODAY and not in 2009.





Even IF you were serious, do you think that this guy is going to be sitting around drinking tea for 2 years waiting for you to come and rescue her? No, he's probably going to be lifting weights, biking, rowing, running, and fighting so that he'll be 225 by then.
A medical exam to verify the presence of his seminal fluid on her body, and her sworn statement that it was non-consensual, is all you should need in a U.S. court.


Research the Mike Tyson case.





If you wait 2 years, then go off on a vendetta, you're only stirring up the legal muck and may destroy her chance to get justice.......





get a lawyer!
Best advice is to stay the hell away from this situation, if there is any real abuse going on than it should be reported to the cops but sometimes women date jerks, there are many different resons that I wont go into, but know that even if you beat this guy up the woman will find another jerk too push her around





Best advice is not to get involved in womens crap unless she is your wife, i have a feeling that if you ever fight this guy and your ';best firend'; is there that she will jump in for her man and not you, trust me, i think what you would realy like to do it to date your friend yourself and think this is a good way to go about it but unfortunately you missed that boat long ago, if you really are her friend and dont want to be more than friends call the cops, take her with you to the cops, be a man but not an idiot, get her into the cop shop, if she says she is being abused the police have to do something, or maby just get her the hell away from him





but i recon you want her more than a friend and thats why your doing this, in that case dont ******* ruin your life over a chick you missed your chance with
If you really are in this kind of ';situation';, common sense quietly whispers that you need to tell police or jump this stereotypical tough guy, not post something on YA. Your ';solution'; is a bit weird because you can+should take action immediately rather than 2 yrs from now which probably means you aren't actually in any kind of emergency and neither is your ';best friend';. If your ';best friend'; is having trouble then you are dumb for being so lethargic. I know my buddies would be on this guy within the hour with shotguns and shanks. But if your ';situation'; REALLY demands it, you'd be better off with a gun or some sort of weapon.
I believe you are full of bull-malarkey.


Your friend must go talk to the police, they will protect her.
learn boxing in 2 years if you train hard you will be able to beat him down without even brakeing a sweat





this guy sounds like an *** hole





i have got one question though why 2 years?
unless you live in texas i can't help physically so i suggest you smash the insides of his knees and study the technique of aiming for pressure spots on the sides and back of his head and then keep hitting him till he's out





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You need to find another way to help your friend. I do not want to discourage you, but you have very little if any chances to succeed.


Your best plan is to keep working with the legal system, and with your friend to establish a strategy to gather proofs of the abuse.
I think what he is doing is sick.





It is not fair as she can not fight back.





I strongly suggest you report him to the proper authorities and possibly catch his raping on tape.





furthermore since bestiality is a serious offence, you should notify the ASPCA and PETA (I guess even terrorist organizations posing as ';animal rights'; organizations have uses) and give them the video.





notify us when his arrest is slated to appear on animal cops.
First of all, your chosen approach just ain't gonna work. Your talking about a scenario that only works in one of those Jean Claude Van Damme movies. It's a fantasy. And it also sounds like you're out for revenge more than you are wanting to help your friend.





Another thing.... Why 2 years? You said she or they have moved abroad. Is there some kind of deadline of when he will be able to return to such behavior?





Your situation seems to have some avenues to pursue:





1) Get the police involved (but if your friend isn't willing to press charges, this isn't a great option).





2) Convince her she has other options besides this guy and his abuse (then option 1 becomes available and the BEST COURSE OF ACTION).





3) If you can't convince her, you may have to let her pursue her own Karma in this matter. (I hate to say it, but sometimes you can't help someone bent on self-destruction.)





4) If you can't let it go.... Then, you have to get this guy to do something where she is not the key to stopping and/or prosecuting him. (Sting him. Set him up and let him take himself down.)





You aren't likely gonna beat him in a fair fight.... Maybe not even an unfair fight. Especially if you're thinking of doing the macho thing and try to go toe-to-toe with this guy.





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Some quotes from the Art of War by Sun-tzu,


Chinese general %26amp; military strategist (~400 BC)





';Victorious warriors win first and then go to war, while defeated warriors go to war first and then seek to win.';





';To secure ourselves against defeat lies in our own hands, but the opportunity of defeating the enemy is provided by the enemy himself.';





';In all fighting, the direct method may be used for joining battle, but indirect methods will be needed in order to secure victory.';

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